"You are Beloved of God....."
In the Sacrament of Baptism, the
Church through the priest and the congregation reach out to the one being
Baptized and say on behalf of God Almighty: "You are my beloved son or
daughter. In you I am well pleased!"
If that sounds familiar, it should.
That was what Jesus experienced at His Baptism in the River Jordan (c. Mt
3:17). And it is a marvelous message or affirmation. In it we hear at a
profound level the affirmation that we are created in the image and likeness of
God, unique, one of a kind, irreplacable, special, a work of beauty, and a
person endowed with the ability to create and to love _ the image of God!
This is a message which needs to be
heard loud and clear in our world today. There are so many hurting, lonely
people, who end up on drugs or alcohol or making a name for themselves by
violent behavior. And the culture around us tells us again and again that we
are not "okay" unless we own or buy or have what is being sold to us
through the media.
But this vision of God, which was
shown to us in complete form in the life, death and resurrection of Jesus, is
not something we can embrace in a moment. We do not learn that we are beloved
of God simply from this Baptism service. It is an awareness that has to grow
within us and be experienced by us from the interaction with others who seek to
live out the Gospel.
That's where Baptism is the
beginning of a journey. Along the way, the love from family and friends, and
from other Christian people, will continue the affirmation process. Eventually,
the awareness can sink deep into our consciousness and we can pray with David:
"I will thank you because I am marvelously made; your works are wonderful,
and I know it well" (Psalm 139:13).
Parents promise God in the Baptism
event that they will be "responsible for seeing that the child you present
is brought up in the Christian faith and life (BCP p. 302). The home is indeed
the first place where this vision of being beloved by God can be taught and
experienced.
Godparents used to promise to care
for and raise the child if something happened to the parents. Now the promise
is to take a special interest in the child, in his or her growth and
development. That means expressing that love and affirmation to them that adds
to what they experience in the home. Whatever action is possible, it is
directed toward helping "this child to grow into the full stature of
Christ" (p. 302).
As a congregation we make a promise
also when we Baptize a child. We promise to "do all in our power to
support these persons in their life in Christ" (BCP p. 303). This means we
will affirm them when we encounter them at worship or in the activities of
parish life. It also means that we as a congregation will organize educational
programs and good experiences, such as Sunday School, Camp and the like to
continue the affirmation as they grow into adulthood.
Baptism, therefore, is more than the
entrance rite into a Church. It is initiation into a whole people (the
Christian Community throughout the world) who seek to live out God's vision for
human relationships and God's vision for how we handle our things and the
resources of the earth.
When a child is born, we begin to look forward to what their life
might become. We teach them to care for themselves, to read and write, to play,
to learn music or games, and such. We need also to teach them to pray and to
worship, and to learn that they are beloved of God and called to share God's
love and vision with others. What a beautiful challenge!
Joseph+